Can Love Happen Twice

Going weak on your knees... Falling for someone at the first sight... Trying to find love rather than letting it find you.... Is it love or its just a personification of human's desperation towards the opposite sex....In the fast paced life, we tend to move on very fast from our past relations.. But there will be a person whom you get stuck to in life... 

After a certain point of time in a relationship you tend to compare your partner with the person whom you are stuck to in life.. Its goes unnoticed in few relationships but in few it is evidently visible...You never tend to justify with your current partner as you always have someone else in your mind...Mostly the one whom you get stuck to in life is either your first love or your childhood love.. It all starts when your mind is not matured enough to understand the complexities of life and you fall in love without considering the physical assets of the person...Its happens only once and you tend to be in its hangover for the rest of your life.

You might have moved on in life but the person you are stuck to in life will keep coming back to you... There will be times when you just think of giving up on things related to that person but all your efforts will go in vain.

Because of our egos and false assumptions of happiness in life we tend to ignore this feeling...With the changing thought process of people and with faster lifestyle they tend to fall in love again and again but do they really move on from their first love? or they are just under the false impression of being in Love...

A lot of people would disagree with the theory of love happening once and would revert to there past relationships as a mistake... They might have had a bad relationship or they might have ended on a wrong note but first love always is more special and it tends to be with us throughout our life...

Love's meaning might have changed over the years but the feeling of first love will still be deep trodden into our hearts..... Its just a matter of time, when we leave our egos and try to have a reality check...

RAGHAV

Parenting Is Not Easy

Sometimes your biggest strength becomes your weakness... It might have happened to all of us while leaving our parents.... That decision was indeed a tough one as we had to leave our home for a better future and face the cruel world... Being under the cover of parents through out the life, it was imperative to go out in the world and explore new possibilities... It was manifest how desperately we wanted to stay with them...but we had toThe feeling wasn't same for everybody as some wanted to leave their parents and lead a independent life as they thought parents made an unnecessary indulgence in their life... Though i was incredulous of this fact in the beginning but later on i had to believe that some just didn't understand the value of their parents.. Few just consider them to be ATMs...
Considering the fact that they put in that extra effort so that their children can always wear a smile... It is regretful how they are not valued.... Though sometimes parents also do not understand certain things..... but that is only out of the sheer love that they become over protective...Its actually the difference of view not the conflict of interests..Parents just want to exquisitely carve the path of our lives...

A feeling of parents being a disgrace to their image has also sunk amongst a lot of people, they think their parents cannot match up to the modern ways of living... The fail to understand that it is only because of their parents that they have achieved those modernized way of living... But is this the age which gets in the feelings of rebel  or its just in once nature.... According to me, its the age as the thought process is not matured enough to understand life and the long term disasters cause by the immature thinking.
This piece of writing is dedicated to all the parents who work day in day out to support their children and provide them with all their wants in life. It is a homage to all those loving mothers and caring fathers... Ending this article with the hope that every child parent relationship will be invigorated

RAGHAV